Four Weeks!

Happy Monday everyone!

I made it through my first day of work after ten days off… and it was definitely a challenge. Luckily, all that is in store for me for the rest of the night is sushi, Netflix, and a nice big glass of green tea. 🙂

I’m extremely proud of myself today. As of yesterday, it has been four weeks since I implemented a “lifestyle change” – if you care to call it that – which includes working out regularly, eating healthier, and living a more stress free life.

During these past weeks, I have focused mostly exercising and creating a regimen that works for me. I have always worked out and kept in relatively good shape, but never like this. I made a commitment to myself and so far I feel great!

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I’ve heard over and over that it takes 4 weeks for something to become a habit, which is why I am so happy with myself for reaching this milestone!

You may be wondering why all of a sudden I decided to make this change..

This past year of college was very difficult for me. I was extremely stressed out, anxious, and generally unhappy. My schedule was filled to the brim with activities and other commitments, the schoolwork was very difficult and time consuming, and I was living in a tiny apartment with a roommate who I did not get along with.

I was captain of my college dance team, held a position in my sorority, worked 10+ hours per week, and was pursuing classes towards both my bachelor degree and my masters. To say the least – I was in way over my head.

I didn’t make any time for myself or the things that I genuinely cared about. I wasn’t getting enough sleep and I wasn’t taking care of myself. Because of my busy schedule I rarely had time to go grocery shopping, never mind taking an hour to go to the gym.

I didn’t know how to handle it. I was frequently in a bad mood and lashing out at the people who cared about me. I knew I was doing it and felt awful about it, but for some reason I couldn’t control it.

When I moved home for the summer in May, I took some time to re-evaluate decided that something needed to change. I realized that no matter how busy my schedule gets, I need to make time for myself! I decided then and there that I was going to dedicate this summer to self improvement.

665d9ee745f89597ea65b105c370274eI first decided to focus on my health! I made a commitment to workout at home 5 days per week and to start drinking more water. So far so good. I have found myself with more energy and much less stress in my life.

My next task is improving my outlook and attitude about obstacles that come my way, while keeping with my workout regimen. I started this by keeping a Gratitude journal, as I mentioned last week.

Sorry for the long post, but hopefully it gives you a better idea of where I am coming from!

 

xo,

Jaclyn

 

Q. What do you do to handle stressful situations in your life?

 

Choose Happiness

Lately I have been thinking a lot about my future – what I want to do, where I want to live, and who I want to be around. Every time I do, I am overcome with anxiety and can’t help but feel that I’m not living life as the person that I want to be. I want to be somebody who embraces change, focuses on all of the positive aspects of my life, and inspires other.

Often times I let little things get me down. I depend far too much on other people for my own happiness and I have an extreme “type A” personality. This basically means that I like lists, I like knowing the plan, I like outlining details of every little thing that I have to do. This is great in some situations, but often times if something doesn’t go according to “the plan” it throws me into a whirlwind

This being said, I’ve been thinking a lot about how to become the person that I want to be – happier, more independent, and more relaxed.

Today while I was scrolling through my Facebook page I saw a link to an article titled “10 Ways to Be a Better Version of Yourself in 2014” by Jess over at http://www.thegoldengirlblog.com. Now, I know that we are over halfway through 2014 but that doesn’t make this list any less true. Everything she mentioned resonated deeply with me, from wearing bold lipstick to striking up more conversations with strangers (read the article and you will understand).

The piece of advice that stuck out the most to me was to start acting the way that you want to feel. She goes on to talk about how this is similar to the  commonly used phrase “fake it ’til you make it.” Put a smile on your face when nothing goes according to plan. Seek an alternate solution rather than throwing a hissy fit and giving up. Compliment a stranger when you are feeling down on yourself. Not only will make them feel good, it will make you feel great about yourself. Forgive those who wrong you. You will feel better to just let go of all that toxic energy.

These are choices that we must make each and every day.

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Choose FORGIVENESS- Choose LAUGHTER – Choose LOVE – Choose HAPPINESS

I will be working hard to make these adjustments and take control of my own happiness.

xo,

Jaclyn

 

Q. In what ways do you choose happiness in your own life?